Not much of an independent

This is not an independents day for all the families who have lost a child, but instead we spend each day battling the devastating aftermath caused by SIDS. Some of us stand proud and coup better than others, finding ways to help, finding ways to care. Some will get on with their lives, trying to fill the empty void that is left, maybe living for others in the family or maybe just living. Some find each day a mystery of what the coming hours will hold for them, not knowing when you will be up or down, and some are in a turmoil, not moving on, never moving forwards. What ever we are, how ever we suffer, we all share the total and unescapable feeling child loss brings to out lives.